Yasui Konpira Shrine - The Place to Cut Ties (Or Strengthen Them) | MK Deep Dive
- M.R. Lucas
- Mar 4
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 25
Stuck in a relationship that’s heading nowhere? Dreading another day of forced smiles and quiet dinners? Maybe you just need a little cosmic nudge to end it. Well, I know the perfect spot. Yasui Konpira Shrine in Kyoto is well-known for helping people break ties—romantic or otherwise—when they can’t quite summon the courage themselves. No judgment, we’ve all been there.
This unique shrine dates back to Emperor Tenji’s reign (668–671 CE), when Fujiwara no Kamatari—the influential politician and founder of Japan’s most powerful aristocratic clan—erected it to pray for his family’s future. He had wisteria planted throughout the grounds, earning it the name Fujidera, or “Temple of Wisteria.”

Centuries later, Emperor Sutoku (r. 1123–1141) became interested in the shrine. A dedicated admirer of wisteria, he felt drawn to its grounds and helped restore it. But his story ended in tragedy. After a failed rebellion in 1156, he was exiled to Sanuki Province (modern-day Kagawa), torn away from everything he knew, including the capital he once ruled. Isolated and consumed by regret, he spent his days in deep repentance, even writing Buddhist sutras in his own blood in a desperate attempt at spiritual salvation. But the imperial court ignored his pleas, leaving him to die in despair. His restless spirit, full of wrath, was said to have cursed the imperial bloodline for generations, making him one of Japan’s three great vengeful ghost.
Fast forward to 1177. A Buddhist monk named Daren visited the shrine and claimed he had a confrontation with the emperor’s furious ghost. Shaken by the experience, he spearheaded the effort to deify Sutoku, turning Yasui Konpira into a shrine dedicated to severing attachments—not just to bad relationships, but also to destructive habits, illnesses, and lingering issues and regrets.
Here’s how it works: You take a paper talisman, write your wish, and then crawl through the Enkiri Enmusubi monument—a stone slab so thickly covered in paper prayers it looks like a makeshift igloo. Once through, you slap your wish onto the stone. And that’s it. People swear by its power, so be careful what you ask for. You might come back from Japan single, unemployed, or miraculously free of your worst problems or vices.
And if you’re in a solid relationship? No worries. If it’s meant to last, the shrine’s deities will only make your bond stronger.
So, whether you need a clean break or a cosmic confirmation that you’re with the right one, Yasui Konpira Shrine delivers. Just be ready for the outcome.
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